1. He who finds a wife finds a good thing (Proverbs 18:22), not a wifey or a girlfriend. This woman should already be exemplifying the qualities of a wife in her everyday life, a reflection of the woman in Proverbs 31. You should be busy doing the Lord’s work and not living to achieve the mere goal of getting a man. Are you focused on LOOKING for the right kind of mate, or BECOMING the right kind of mate? As you’re out there praying, serving, teaching, giving, helping, a man who’s diligently living out his God-given vision will be attracted to that. He’ll see that you’re serious about your faith and worthy to be his wife. Study the Proverbs 31 woman and take notes.” Heck yes.
     
  2. Then, as inevitably happens, the noise of the world began to drown out the voice of God’s Spirit. It grew harder and harder to hear The Spirit’s voice. At first I recognized the difficulty, but without coming back to Him, each succeeding time His voice grew dimmer and dimmer.

    Then, because God is a God of unlimited grace, He allowed painful circumstances to enter my life. In essence, He said, “OK, have it your way.” But He did not leave me! I picture Him standing back, arms folded, brow furrowed, eyes fixed on His precious daughter to see what a mess she could make.

    Each time I ran to the Arms of God, He sat me on His Lap, hugged me with His Arms, and rejoiced over me with songs (Zephaniah 3:17).

    The Lord your God is with you,
    He is might to save.
    He will take great delight in you,
    He will quiet you with His love,
    He will rejoice over you with singing.

     
  3. When we have a true vision of God and see Him in His glory, we cannot help but realize that God is so exalted, so awesome, and we are but dust and we cannot stand before Him. We are filled with awe and fear and reverence. And when we know God in that manner, we will live a life that is pleasing to Him, a life that honors His name. We will not approach Him lightly, but with awe and reverence, with far more awe than queen Esther had before the king, her husband (Esther 4:11, 16). No wonder the wise man said, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding” (Proverbs 9:10).
    — bible.org/seriespage/book-ezekiel-part-1
     
  4. You may have noticed that the books you really love are bound together by a secret thread. You know very well what is the common quality that makes you love them, though you cannot put it into words: but most of your friends do not see it at all, and often wonder why, liking this, you should also like that. Again, you have stood before some landscape, which seems to embody what you have been looking for all your life; and then turned to the friend at your side who appears to be seeing what you saw — but at the first words a gulf yawns between you, and you realise that this landscape means something totally different to him, that he is pursuing an alien vision and cares nothing for the ineffable suggestion by which you are transported. Even in your hobbies, has there not always been some secret attraction which the others are curiously ignorant of — something, not to be identified with, but always on the verge of breaking through, the smell of cut wood in the workshop or the clap-clap of water against the boat’s side? Are not all lifelong friendships born at the moment when at last you meet another human being who has some inkling (but faint and uncertain even in the best) of that something which you were born desiring, and which, beneath the flux of other desires and in all the momentary silences between the louder passions, night and day, year by year, from childhood to old age, you are looking for, watching for, listening for? You have never had it. All the things that have ever deeply possessed your soul have been but hints of it — tantalising glimpses, promises never quite fulfilled, echoes that died away just as they caught your ear. But if it should really become manifest — if there ever came an echo that did not die away but swelled into the sound itself — you would know it. Beyond all possibility of doubt you would say “Here at last is the thing I was made for”. We cannot tell each other about it. It is the secret signature of each soul, the incommunicable and unappeasable want, the thing we desired before we met our wives or made our friends or chose our work, and which we shall still desire on our deathbeds, when the mind no longer knows wife or friend or work. While we are, this is. If we lose this, we lose all.
    — C.S. Lewis, The Problem of Pain
     
  5. Would you please adorn yourself in such a way that draws men’s eyes to heaven? Would you speak to them with courtesy and not flirtation? Would you remain a “garden enclosed”, and refrain from making yourself open and vulnerable to every guy that comes along? I know there is a panic that you’ll never catch a guy’s eye, and Prince Charming will never notice that you, Sleeping Beauty, have been patiently waiting for him for, like, a really long time! You do not need to “catch” him with your feminine craft or charm; trust that at the perfect time God will awaken the man He has built for you, as He did with Adam, when the bride was fully prepared.
     
  6. The Lord God Almighty promises…

    He will supernaturally protect us from harm. (Psalm 91:5-12)

    He will save, heal, and rescue us from destruction and fill us with good things. (Psalm 103:1-4)

    He will not withhold any good thing from us. (Psalm 84:11-12)

    He will give us supernatural strength and power. (Isaiah 40:29-31)

    He will keep us in perfect peace as we look to Him. (Isaiah 26:3)

    He will do even beyond what we ask or think. (Ephesians 3:20-21)

    He will give us victory over sin. (Romans 8:2-6)

    He will give us power over the Enemy. (James 4:7)

    He will stand against all who stand against us. (Isaiah 54:17)

     
  7. Assurance.

    So Hathak went out to Mordecai in the open square of the city in front of the king’s gate. Mordecai told him everything that had happened to him, including the exact amount of money Haman had promised to pay into the royal treasury from the destruction of the Jews. He also gave him a copy of the text of the edict for their annihilation, which had been published in Susa, to show to Esther an explain it to her, and he told him to instruct her to go into the king’s presence to beg for mercy and plead with him for her people.

    Hathak went back and reported to Esther what Mordecai had said. Then she instructed him to say to Mordecai, “All the king’s officials and the people of the royal provinces know that for any man or woman who approaches the king without being summoned the king has but one law: that they be put to death unless the king extends the gold scepter to them and spares their lives. But thirty days have passed since I was called to go to the king.”

    When Esther’s words were reported to Mordecai, he sent back this answer: “Do not think that because you are in the king’s house you alone of all the Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father’s families will perish. And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?”

    Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: “Go, gather together all the Jews who are in Susa, and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my attendants will fast as you do. When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish.”

    Esther 4:9-16

    It’s always a little difficult to remember that biblical heroes and heroines like Esther did not know the end of their stories while they were in the midst of their struggles. Esther more than likely had no vision and little hope for the triumph that was to come for her and her people. Each moment, each step was revealed to her by the Lord in the same way He reveals His plans to us: one small piece at a time.

    We can clearly see the pattern of the Lord working in her and through her- she wins the favor of her attendants, the king, and “everyone who saw her” (2:15). However, Esther was a human just like us, with doubts and fears. She was afraid and even resistant to go before the king after receiving Mordecai’s instruction. His sharp reply however must have brought to surface the truth that Esther already knew in her heart: not my way Lord, but Yours. She accepts Mordecai’s instruction and immediately begins preparation for the task before her, asking everyone she could reach to join her in three days and nights fasting. Esther has submitted her life to the will of her Father.

    But the people in the courts of King Xerxes were not the only ones to show her favor, for we see the Lord clearly honoring the faith of this young woman. Triumph upon triumph builds for Esther and cousin Mordecai. The enemies plotting the destruction of the Jews are more than defeated, Esther retains her position as queen, and Mordecai becomes “second in rank to King Xerxes, preeminent among the Jews, and held in high esteem by his many fellow Jews…”

    If God can deliver an entire nation through a young woman’s small words spoken out of turn to a mighty king, can he not deliver any of us from the apparent destruction we feel we face? There is no task that is too great for our Father, nor any difficult time in our life that comes as a shock to Him.

    With men there are things that are impossible, but with God all things are possible.

    No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us.

    And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.

    Romans 8:37-39

     
  8. You are my strength, oh God. Hallelujah, our God reigns.

     
  9. It is everything I thought it would be; being the Olympic champion, it definitely is an amazing feeling. And I give all the glory to God. It’s kind of a win-win situation. The glory goes up to him and the blessings fall down on me. Let all that I am praise the LORD; may I never forget the good things He does for me. - Gabby Douglas
     
  10. Love how my Father can take a tragedy like this and still use it for His glory. Such a beautiful story.